Siblings and the Coming-Out Process: A Comparative Case Study

J Homosex. 2018;65(4):407-426. doi: 10.1080/00918369.2017.1321349. Epub 2017 Jun 6.

Abstract

Siblings play a key, supportive role in the lives of many lesbian and gay adults. Yet siblings are rarely considered in the literature regarding the coming-out process (D'Augelli et al., 1998; Hilton & Szymanski, 2011; LaSala, 2010; Savin-Williams & Dubé, 1998). To fill this gap in the research literature, we carried out a comparative case study in the country of Belgium between two sets of siblings-three Romani brothers with one sibling identifying as a gay male and three White sisters with one sibling identifying as a lesbian. These two cases were pulled from a larger qualitative study (Haxhe & D'Amore, 2014) of 102 native French-speaking Belgian participants. Findings of the present study revealed that siblings offered critical socio-emotional support in the coming out of their lesbian and gay sibling, particularly with disclosing to parents and with fostering self-acceptance.

Keywords: Coming out; Romani; gay; lesbian; sibling relationships.

Publication types

  • Comparative Study

MeSH terms

  • Adolescent
  • Adult
  • Belgium
  • Female
  • Homosexuality, Female / psychology*
  • Homosexuality, Male / psychology*
  • Humans
  • Male
  • Parents / psychology
  • Self Disclosure*
  • Sexual and Gender Minorities / psychology*
  • Siblings / psychology*
  • Young Adult