The objective of this study was to estimate frequency and correlates of discussing HIV viral load (VL) with serodiscordant sex partners to guide decisions about sexual activities among men who have sex with men (MSM). We conducted a cross-sectional survey of 573 San Francisco MSM. Among 507 who knew their HIV status, 397 (78%) were familiar with the term 'viral load', and half (n=199) had a serodiscordant partner in the prior year. These 199 respondents (n=130 [65%] HIV-positive; n=69 [35%] HIV-negative) were the focus of this analysis. A majority (n=111, 56%) discussed VL in the prior year with serodiscordant partners specifically to guide decisions about sexual risk behaviour. Discussion was more common among HIV-positive than HIV-negative participants (adjusted odds ratio [AOR], 3.5; 95% confidence interval [CI], 1.6-7.6), and African Americans compared to whites (AOR, 3.7; 95% CI, 1.5-9.5). HIV-negative men who discussed VL were more concerned about becoming infected, but also more willing to engage in risky behaviour with a partner whose VL is undetectable, than men not discussing VL. Some HIV-negative men may be discussing VL to engage in higher risk behaviour upon learning of an HIV-positive partner's undetectable VL. Interventions targeting MSM should explain that while risk of transmission is likely reduced with a low blood plasma VL, it is not necessarily eliminated.